Monday, February 22, 2016
Goodwill- A Police Story
Recently I read
that of the 12,000 police officers in Chicago just over a hundred were
responsible for a third of the misconduct. This points to the obvious question
of “What are they still doing there?” But more important is how many good
police are being dragged down by a few.
The police officer I
met today was one of the unrecognized majority. I was waiting for a tow truck
in the rain and had long since used all my quarters in the meter. It had
been flashing “Empty” for over an hour
so I’m expecting the police sooner or later and desperately hoping the tow
truck arrives first. My heart sinks when I see the uniform heading my way, and
I jump out of the car to explain that the truck should have been there by now.
Before I can open
my mouth she asks, “Are you alright? I just wanted to make sure you’re
alright.”
The concern on her
face touched me and settled my agitation like a tonic. I told her my story and
she nodded sympathetically.
She says, ” You
want me to get you a tow truck?”
Like a magic wand
blasting away my mistaken assumptions, her solicitude spread around me like a
sheltering wing. That was what I always liked about Sheriff Andy of Mayberry,
his attitude toward the town was protective, everyone a real person and not a
category. By his gentle interventions he rebalanced situations before they
turned worse. I thought his type had disappeared but I was wrong. The fact that
she was standing out there in the rain offering to help me set things right soothed
my spirits when my mood had begun to deteriorate badly. Gratitude is healing
and gratefulness for her caring stimulated ripples of gratitude for all the
systems that support me. I thought of all the police officers who probably view
their jobs like she does, who offer a sense of security to an area they know
well enough that they can solve and defuse problems before they arrive. Like
Andy’s, their goal is a peaceful community. The misconception that leads us to
expect the police to brandish their authority grows from the misrepresentation
of police behavior on the news. By playing the same incidents over and over the
images are reinforced in the circuitry of our brain creating negative
expectations whenever we see a uniform. Lots of people have probably had
similar experiences to mine and know differently, but it’s personal knowledge.
Where there is no first hand experience there is nothing to contradict the
distorted view given the public mind, planted by repetition of the worst.
I wonder what
would happen if the news restricted itself to what actually happened that day.
It’s because they repeat the same stories and footage for weeks the impression
is made that the police are a brutal force that treats the neighborhood in
their care as “Other”. But how much of
real day-to-day policing is actually more like my experience. But for the
repeat-fortified mental circuits created by negative images, we could see them
as sources of help and not sources of danger.
Recently I heard
a Ted speaker suggest that violence is catching in the same way as illness,
that being surrounded by it increases the chances you’ll act violently. Media
should be accountable for the misrepresentation created by the repetition of
the same incidents day after day, building the unconscious impression it
happens all the time. Creating a climate of goodwill might have the same power,
with emphasis on alliance and cooperation instead of antagonism. If my officer
had been wearing a body camera, the footage of her generous spirit would have
lifted people up just like any good example does. Maybe such a large part of
the public wouldn’t be reaching for politicians that feed on their fear if the
more accurate picture of human goodwill was part of our daily news.
Monday, January 11, 2016
Beauty's Guidance
In an earlier post I suggested that beauty itself is a
sense, an attunement to proportion, harmony of form, and orderly arrangement.
Our sense of what fits, like the other senses,
is a response to qualities in the world and not an idea about them. We
put a piece of colored glass by the window or three objects together on a table
guided by our sense of where they belong.
If the quality wasn’t in us we wouldn’t respond, couldn’t recognize what fits and what doesn’t. When we admire beauty we participate in it. It is
the beautiful part of us that understands it. Sacred geometry is part of our own design and resonates in its presence. Denis Dutton in his Ted Talk says
the instinct toward beauty has adaptive survival value. Evolution favored the
sense of beauty to guide us toward health and wisdom with balance and harmony
as guiding principles. Just as at every organic level there is homeostasis, the
ongoing adjustment to the disruptions of living, always striving for the
next balanced state, beauty fortifies what will balance our connection to
the world we see, for wherever we respond to beauty it’s an action of
connection akin to love.
Where researchers have tried to pin beauty down to find out general preferences, polls showed that a majority of global people like the color blue
and landscapes with water in them. These few commonalities are clues to the
link between beauty and our spatial relation to the world. Both blue and
landscapes with water suggest expanse, and having space is being free,
uninhibited. Our nervous system matured learning the demands of moving in
physical space. So the feeling associated with spatial reality carries
universal meaning.We trust it like we trust our ability to walk. Visual art distills the essential elements, clarifies the spatial structure to resonate with the feeling of that relationship to space. Understanding visually contains a sense of knowing whereas
much of verbal thinking is shadowed by the uncertainty from all that’s left out.
Immersion in
what is beautiful strengthens its power to create harmony in ourselves and the
world. Being drawn to a work of art is a connection to the artist and the species. The heart
says, “yes” to a feeling recognized but perhaps never expressed before. We can
reflect on what we can externalize. Art educates our
sensitivity to beauty and primes the circuits for lively response since active
circuits respond more readily. We recognize and admire the qualities that we
ourselves possess and strengthen them as we find them externally. As Psychiatrist
Alfred Adler said “Art may be esteemed the highest training for social life,
inculcating into us attitudes of value and thus improving the nature of our
responses.” Likewise, philosopher Susanne Langer felt that having beautiful
objects around was essential to educating a child’s sense of proportion and
quality.
Beauty inspires
caring. What we find beautiful stimulates gratitude. If it looks perfect we want
to keep it that way, what throws off the balance needs adjusting. Like plants
have a tropism toward the sun, intelligence leans toward beauty. Balancing
proportions, discerning underlying patterns and finding what fits are the tools
of reasoning as well as art. Finding images you love is the most personal kind of education and now, with the internet, one of the easiest. Start with museum or gallery collections to find artists that move you and then you're off on an associative journey all your own. Knowing what you like is all you need.
Thursday, December 24, 2015
Bookmark 2015
Here is this year's holiday bookmark. Encouraged by exTA Collin Hughes' appreciation of last year's, I'll try to keep posting them every year I make them. I've only missed one year in over three decades of creating them for family and friends which now includes my blog readers. Print it, cut it out, put it between two pieces of clear contact paper to protect it, then cut it out again.
Enjoy having a gargoyle to watch over your reading and enjoy your reading.
If you're looking for a different kind of book, try "The Family Fang" by Kevin Wilson.
Happy Holidays!
Enjoy having a gargoyle to watch over your reading and enjoy your reading.
If you're looking for a different kind of book, try "The Family Fang" by Kevin Wilson.
Happy Holidays!
Saturday, December 12, 2015
Open Mind
The physical brain is the repository of what’s learned about
living in material existence. We are each an exquisitely complex integration of
mechanisms to perceive and understand the world and because we walk around
separately having different experiences there is the illusion that awareness is
separate. But science has been unsuccessful at locating a place for
consciousness, so the idea of awareness that flows through us bringing
consciousness to our place in the world, what Sri Aurobindo calls the
superconsciousness is not a far-fetched notion.
Our own experience of this is in how similar, exactly the
same really, the perceiving mind in our head seems to be throughout life. I
remember that phase in childhood when the idea of separateness was upon me and
didn’t make sense, and I feel that same questioning mind using my personal
mental equipment now. It’s what provides the outlook. Years of meditation have
loosened my attachment to the personal in a shift to viewing it as a particular
instrument for learning about creation.
It was interesting to read that brain scans show less over
all activity and ego consciousness during time on hallucinogens. Yet
the experiences reported are more elaborate and intense. This would support
Huxley’s idea that the brain is a filter, screening out all that is not useful
to our purposes. When the filter is disconnected the awareness ranges beyond
the personal mind including sights and experiences not accounted for by brain
activity. There are many reports from doctors and scientists of people having
consciousness without brain activity and the testimony all mystical religions
shows how stilling the mind opens it. Meditation is a way to let the brain
settle. Day to day demands emphasize the personal, so it’s easy to get caught
in the illusion that is all there is. As personal agendas fade, the mind
expands into larger perspective. The extended mind opens the channel for
inspiration, influenced by the needs of the field of mind. In this way a larger
field of mind guides us to what we need and the individual contributions that
grow from separate life history are what it needs. The noosphere described by
Pierre Teilhard de Chardin in his "Activation of Energy" is the self-regulating
organism of mind that encloses the planet like an atmosphere.
In a beautiful way of saying this from an essay by Bhikka
Bodhi, “When the soul becomes embodied,
it forgets its original nature and becomes enmeshed in material creation. This
creates the self.”
We are particle and wave. When we’re identified with an
isolated self, we’re particle. When identified with a higher frequency,
consciousness remembers its original nature. Just like crest and trough are all
part of the wave, we shouldn’t let our distinctions between figure and ground
give the impression they’re separate and that only one side is important.
Because we are material does not mean that’s all we are. As the wave, we are
continuous with the energy spectrum.
Opening the mind to the possibility that consciousness is not confined in the body allows more access to the creative stream fueling the growth of the future. To be the wave is to resonate with the larger field of consciousness and feel the connection to all of creation.
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